Etiquette Etiquette Foundation, Inc. empowers youth and families through etiquette education, leadership development, and cultural experiences that inspire confidence and excellence. #EtiquetteEmpowermentFuture

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Etiquette Etiquette Foundation, Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. All donations are tax-deductible as allowed by law. Etiquette Etiquette Foundation’s EIN is 33-3888754

Mission

Etiquette Etiquette Foundation empowers youth and families through etiquette, leadership, and cultural education, building confidence, character, and a lifelong sense of purpose.

Our Story

Etiquette Etiquette Foundation was born from a vision to restore the art of refinement, confidence, and leadership in the next generation. Founded by Karene A. Putney, a mother of four daughters who embody resilience and excellence, the Foundation stands as a living legacy of empowerment and grace.

From classrooms to gala ballrooms, we create meaningful experiences that help youth and families rediscover the power of etiquette, not as an outdated formality, but as a modern pathway to confidence, opportunity, and transformation. Through every program, partnership, and event, we nurture the social and emotional intelligence that turns potential into purpose.

Vision

A world where youth and families thrive with confidence, cultural awareness, and leadership, rooted in the enduring values of etiquette, excellence, and grace, creating generations who lead with integrity, kindness, and purpose.

Values:

  • Respect
  • Confidence
  • Leadership
  • Community
  • Excellence

Why Etiquette Matters Today

Etiquette is not about outdated formality.
It is the foundation of:

  • Confidence
  • Emotional intelligence
  • Respectful communication
  • Leadership
  • Self-discipline
  • Problem-solving
  • Cultural understanding

In a world filled with distractions, technology, and social pressure, etiquette restores the human skills that shape character and unlock opportunity.

 

EEF teaches modern etiquette as a pathway to empowerment, not perfection—helping young people navigate life with grace, purpose, and confidence.

Who We Serve

Etiquette Etiquette Foundation serves youth and families across Maryland, with a focus on:

Students ages 9–18
Anne Arundel County, Prince George’s County, and the surrounding regions

Students experiencing challenges in:

Confidence and self-esteem

Social skills and communication

Behavior and emotional regulation

Academic motivation

Leadership and character development

We partner with schools, families, and community organizations to provide the structure, mentorship, and social–emotional development students need to thrive.

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Approved School System Vendor

Etiquette Etiquette Foundation, Inc. is an approved vendor with:

Anne Arundel County Public Schools (AACPS)

Prince George’s County Public Schools (PGCPS)

This approval allows us to provide etiquette, leadership development, and youth refinement programs to schools, families, and community organizations across both counties.

Vendor approval does not imply endorsement. It authorizes EEF to provide services within each county’s procurement guidelines.

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Why Our Work Matters

Today’s youth are facing unprecedented emotional, social, and behavioral challenges:

1 in 3 adolescents reports persistent sadness or hopelessness

Over 40% of students struggle with anxiety and social confidence

Behavioral incidents in schools have increased significantly since 2020

Students spend hours online, yet lack real-world social skills

Families report needing more support with emotional regulation, etiquette, and leadership development

EEF addresses these root causes through a blend of mentorship, etiquette education, leadership training, and cultural exposure—helping youth build confidence, character, belonging, and purpose.

Impact Goals & Outcomes

Our Impact Goals

EEF is committed to producing measurable, meaningful outcomes:

  • 1 Increase student confidence and self-worth
  • 2 Improve behavioral regulation and emotional resilience
  • 3 Strengthen communication skills and respectful interactions
  • 4 Reduce disciplinary incidents in partner schools
  • 5 Enhance leadership readiness and peer relationships
  • 6 Expose youth to cultural traditions that broaden worldview
  • 7 Strengthen family connection and community engagement

Our Long-Term Outcomes

Students who complete EEF programs:

  • 1 Communicate with clarity and respect
  • 2 Carry themselves with poise and confidence
  • 3 Demonstrate improved behavior and self-control
  • 4 Approach school and life with purpose
  • 5 Build stronger family and peer relationships
  • 6 Become leaders in their schools and communities
  • 7 Respect for self and others

A Message from the Founder

“In every community today, we see the same urgent need: young people searching for direction, identity, confidence, and standards in a world that often fails to guide them. The Etiquette Etiquette Foundation was created to meet that need with intention, structure, and heart.
We founded this organization because we believe every young person deserves access to skills that shape not only their future careers but also their character, mindset, and sense of self-worth. Etiquette is more than table manners. It is discipline. It is emotional intelligence. It is leadership. It is the ability to walk into any room with confidence, communicate respectfully, and make decisions that honor one’s future.
Our mission reflects a simple but powerful commitment:
To equip youth and families with the social, emotional, and professional tools that create lifelong opportunity.

As Justice Thurgood Marshall wisely said, ‘None of us got where we are solely by pulling ourselves up by our bootstraps; we got here because somebody bent down and helped us pick up our boots.’
This Foundation exists to be that helping hand.

We serve to bridge gaps between school and life, between potential and achievement, between who a child is today and who they have the power to become. Our programs emphasize respect, resilience, communication, personal standards, leadership, and the foundational etiquette skills that open doors.

Our work is driven by the belief Michelle Obama expressed so clearly:
‘Success isn’t about how much money you make; it’s about the difference you make in people’s lives.’

At Etiquette Etiquette Foundation, we are dedicated to making that difference, one student, one family, and one community at a time.

— Karene A. Putney, Founder

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Cultivating excellence, leadership, and opportunity for every child.

The Modern Cotillion Experience - Coming Soon.

The Etiquette Etiquette Foundation proudly announces the upcoming launch of The Modern Cotillion Experience, a reimagined celebration of grace, leadership, and culture for today’s youth.

Debuting with the 2026 Afternoon Tea Gala at The Willard Hotel, this annual event will bring together young women and men from partner schools to explore the art of refinement, confidence, and community through modern etiquette.
Rooted in tradition yet inspired by the present, The Modern Cotillion Experience embodies the Foundation’s mission to cultivate poised, purpose-driven leaders who honor excellence and character in every setting.

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Afternoon Tea Etiquette for Young Ambassadors (Ages 9–12)

A graceful introduction to refinement for our youngest learners - offered through partner school collaborations.

This beautifully designed program gives children an early foundation in confidence, social grace, table manners, courtesy, and the tradition of afternoon tea. Through guided instruction and hands-on practice, students learn how to:

  • Introduce themselves with confidence
  • Communicate respectfully
  • Sit with poise and present themselves well
  • Demonstrate foundational table manners
  • Enjoy a formal tea experience with confidence

This stand-alone program is offered exclusively through school partnerships, created especially for younger children who are not yet eligible for the Teen Afternoon Tea Gala or the Modern Cotillion, giving them their own memorable, age-appropriate rite of passage in etiquette and personal excellence.

School Partnerships

EEF proudly partners with schools to support students’ social, emotional, and behavioral development.

Partner schools receive:

  • Year-long student mentorship
  • Etiquette, leadership, and communication workshops
  • Cultural experiences, including Afternoon Tea
  • The Modern Cotillion Experience
  • Parent workshops and family engagement
  • Behavioral support and student accountability
  • Progress tracking for selected students

Benefits for Schools

  • Improved behavior & classroom engagement
  • Increased confidence and communication skills
  • Stronger school culture
  • Additional youth support without adding staff burden
  • Community connection and family involvement

To explore a partnership, schools can contact:
info@eettq.org

Signature Programs:

  • Afternoon Tea Gala – An annual high-end fundraiser and cultural celebration blending elegance with purpose, raising support for youth and family programs.
  • Etiquette & Leadership Workshops – Training sessions for youth and families on modern etiquette, public speaking, and leadership skills.
  • Community Engagement – Outreach events in schools, community centers, and organizations to bring the art of etiquette to underserved populations.
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Mentorship for Young Men

This program provides boys and young men with:

  • Real-life accountability
  • Discipline and structure
  • Emotional regulation and self-control
  • Respect, conflict management, and social intelligence
  • Character, integrity, and leadership skills

Through guidance rooted in experience, resilience, and truth, young men learn how to carry themselves with confidence, purpose, and honor.

 

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Upcoming Events

  • Annual Afternoon Tea Gala – at The Willard InterContinental Washington, DC. - Coming Soon.
  • Etiquette & Leadership Workshops – Coming Soon.
  • Family Etiquette & Leadership Day – Coming Soon.

Support Our Mission

Your support helps restore something the world deeply needs: grace, respect, and the confidence to lead with character. Every gift to the Etiquette Etiquette Foundation, Inc. fuels programs that teach youth and families the timeless values of civility, leadership, and self-respect.

Through your generosity, we can:
• Equip young people with the confidence to speak, lead, and represent themselves with dignity.
• Provide families with tools that strengthen communication, unity, and respect at home and in society.
• Host cultural and educational experiences that open doors of opportunity and shape the leaders of tomorrow.

When you give, you’re not just supporting a program; you’re helping shape a generation grounded in excellence, poised for purpose, and prepared to change the world.

Donation Info
Etiquette Etiquette Foundation, Inc. is a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. All donations are tax-deductible as allowed by law.

EEF | EIN: 33-3888754

Leadership Advisory Council

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Karene A. Putney

Founder 

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Lee V. Putney, Sr.

Chair

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Cheryl Bass

Program Contributor

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Jessica Wakefield

Governance

Advisor

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Jacqueline Forbes

Finance

Advisor

Clients

Get Involved

There are many ways to join our mission:

  • Partner School

    Bring EEF programs to your students through school collaborations, workshops, and our Modern Cotillion initiative.

  • Community Partner

    Work with us to support outreach events, mentorship programs, and family initiatives.

  • Corporate Sponsor

    Sponsor a youth, a program, or our signature Afternoon Tea Gala.

  • Volunteer

    Serve as a mentor, etiquette assistant, workshop facilitator, or event day volunteer.

  • Donate

    Help us expand our reach and support youth throughout Mary

Ten Pillars of Integrity 

Inspired by ancient wisdom, these timeless principles remind us that proper etiquette begins within through character, humility, and respect.

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Honor Truth and Justice – Let your words be honest, your actions fair, and your heart aligned with integrity.

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Listen Deeply – Wisdom grows from silence and understanding, not from speaking first.

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Respect All People – Show kindness to the humble and restraint toward the powerful; dignity belongs to everyone.

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Master Your Tongue – Speak only when your words bring peace, clarity, or purpose.

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Lead with Humility – Authority is a gift; use it to serve, not to control.

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Seek Balance – Harmony within yourself brings harmony to your home, your work, and your world.

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Honor Family as Your First Classroom – Parents are a child’s first teachers, and children are their legacy; together, model respect, patience, and love as the foundation of all learning.

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Value Learning and Growth – Knowledge refines the mind, but wisdom refines the spirit; always remain teachable.

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Protect Your Character – Reputation is built on integrity; do what is right even when unseen.

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Live with Respect – Respect is the foundation of all refinement. For youth, it begins with honoring parents, teachers, and oneself - recognizing that true confidence grows from courtesy, discipline, and self-control.

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    Community Events

    Celebrating moments of connection, service, and refinement through community engagement. Each event reflects our mission to cultivate leadership, grace, and confidence in every setting.

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    We’d love to hear from you. Whether you’re interested in programs, partnerships, or donations, connect with us today.

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